Questions about Class 106: Just for Dad
Question 1 -
The closer we get to our baby's birth the more I'm worried about my wife's health and what I can do to help her in labour. What can I do to be ready?
Most men worry about their partner's health, especially as the baby grows. (How WILL it get out?!) Going to a Doctor's visit with her and asking your questions can help reassure you that she and the baby are doing well. Prenatal classes (in person or online) can give you ways to comfort and support your wife when she's in labour. Research shows that the presence of even one person in a continuous way through labour (with or without actual care being provided) can reduce pain and shorten labour for women. So relax: just by being there you will help!
Question 2 -
I have mixed feelings about the baby. I'm excited to become a Dad, but I'm worried that I'll have to give up my favorite sports and hobbies to be a 'good father'. Do other men worry about this?
Lots of men have mixed feelings about the changes that happen when they become a father. It's helpful to talk right now with your partner about ways to adapt your lives that will work for you both. The early days of fathering may need your full-time attention, but long-term you will need to balance work, fathering, your relationship with your partner and making time for yourself.
Question 3 -
How can I know what we really need to buy for our baby? It all seems very expensive!
You're right that setting up to receive a baby into the family means having some essentials on hand: a crib or cradle, clothes, diapers, car seat. Make your own list of 'need to have VS nice to have' and share it with family and friends. You'll be surprised how much is available to you if you only ask! You can also look for second-hand items. Before you purchase, be sure that they meet current safety standards, ajd if you receive a second-hand car seat be sure it has not been in any car accidents, has the instruction book, and can be correctly installed in your vehicle.
